I wish boys wouldn't act so different around girls... Some guys are cool and other guys are ridiculously rude... If you're a guy and you have a girl friend ( note the space in between ), then treat her like a friend. Don't treat her like crap. Respond to her messages, make her seem wanted, and make her happy. Don't try to act all cool and tough because you think you're better than her just because she's a girl and you're a boy. Be a good boy friend. Show her respect. Don't leave her wondering about your friendship and have her thinking about whether or not it's worth being friends with a moron of a boy...