You know when you think you're over someone, and you're doing JUST FINE nine months later, and then you realise neither of those things are true? Yeah, that. And you know that dating other people only takes the edge off, and it isn't the right thing to do. So instead you don't date and hope that maybe one day, all of this will just be a memory, and that you will meet someone else much nicer. But in the meantime you just gotta keep on keeping on.