I had a surprise visit from someone this afternoon. He texted me "are you around? " "want any company?" My response was simple enough "yes & yes" For the last two weeks I've been in turmoil mentally. Having a battle within my own mind of what is right in behavioral and responses characteristics ppl should exhibit towards another vs. the reality that what is commonly deserved based upon the level importance of the relationship isn't really shown or done. In fact, it's the opposite. Or half way shown/acted upon. I guess what I thought and later found out he agreed, was I deserved some kind of reaction/response from the text messages and 3 emails I sent which included many different stages of emotions and from him to a two word comment and that was it- was undeserving and did not validate anything I expressed. It wasn't till he showed up that I got that. Men are not talkers one bit!!